Volatile, moi? I think I'm just a bit high-spirited, says Princess Pushy CAROLINE GAMMELL
PRINCESS Michael of Kent has rejected claims that she is racist despite being accused of telling a group of noisy diners sitting next to her in a New York restaurant to "go back to the colonies".
No stranger to controversy, the wife of the Queen's first cousin - dubbed Princess Pushy - claimed she had never been accepted in the UK because she is foreign.
Talking about the negative media coverage, she said: "I don't think it's my place to explain myself. But, I think (it's because) I'm foreign, which is never quite accepted I think. I have different ways of saying things and doing things.
"I'm half-Hungarian, which implies that I am volatile - not really, I think I'm rather high-spirited."
She insisted she had not made the comment and the exchange of words between the two parties had simply been a misunderstanding.
The princess was at the Da Silvano restaurant on Sixth Avenue in May when she asked people at a nearby table to be quiet.
She told her companions they would have to go somewhere else because of the noise and one went off in search of a table. On his return he said there was a table, but that it was "in Siberia".
In an interview with John Stapleton on ITV1's My Favourite Hymns, to be broadcast on Sunday, the princess said: "I was standing, ready to go and I said, 'Siberia? At this point I would be ready to go back to the colonies'.
"Now, I was unaware, and I probably should have been aware, that "colonies" is a pejorative term in America."
The princess, 59, said being dubbed a racist was like "a knife through the heart" and added: "This is against everything I believe in, everything I have worked for."
Princess Michael went on to say she had a love for Africa and the African people.
She said: "I even pretended years ago to be an African, a half-caste African, but - because of my light eyes - I did not get away with it, but I dyed my hair black. I travelled on African buses, I wanted to be a writer, I wanted experiences from Cape Town right up in Mozambique.
"I had this adventure with these absolutely adorable special people and to call me racist - it's a knife through the heart because I really love these people."
But one of the diners who rowed with the Royal in the New York restaurant was not impressed. Nicole Young, a fashion TV reporter and PR consultant, rejected the princess's version of events. She said when she confronted the princess about her "colonies" remark 20 minutes after it was made, the message was "quite clear".
"I was so completely insulted, there was no possible way that I could walk away and let it go," she said.
"This is New York. This is 2004. It was completely inappropriate.
"We definitely didn't misunderstand what she said."
In the same interview, Princess Michael also revealed how she was "blown away" to discover that her son, Lord Freddie Windsor, had taken cocaine.
She said: "My children have always been very anti-drugs, so when my son was accused of taking cocaine in his first year at Oxford I was blown away.
"I said, 'Is this true?' and he said, 'Yes, it is true, it happened'."
She said her son was talking against drugs when he was challenged by a group of people who would not listen to him because he had not tried the drug. He took the cocaine to silence his critics, his mother claimed.
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